Tag Archives: death

How do I talk to my five-year-old about death?

Posted on November 24, 2011 by Dr. Pat

This past April my grandmother passed away.  My son, who recently turned five, seemed to deal with the news okay, however for the past few weeks he has been talking a lot about death.  He started to cry one night … Continue reading →

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What is the most important consideration when naming guardians in your will?

Posted on July 15, 2011 by Dr. Pat

I have a dilemma, we have a four-year-old and are expecting baby #2 in September. The other night I brought up the subject of who should raise/take care of our children should we pass away while they are still very … Continue reading →

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My son recently lost his father and his behaviour is becoming a problem.

Posted on July 6, 2011 by Dr. Pat

My two-and-a-half-year-old son lost his father tragically almost four months ago. He slipped backwards about six months. My biggest concern is his inability to listen to rules or follow directions. I feel that this is a way to get my … Continue reading →

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My daughter is upset by the thought of growing up.

Posted on March 10, 2011 by Dr. Pat

My 10-year-old daughter (an only child) woke up in tears this morning and miserably and painfully said that she didn’t want to grow up. She doesn’t want anyone to talk about how tall she’s getting or how fast she’s growing … Continue reading →

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How do you prepare children for the death of a grandparent?

Posted on January 25, 2011 by Dr. Pat

What is the best way for parents, and other family members, to prepare a six-year-old for the serious illness and impending death of his granddad who is in hospital? It is good to protect our children from harm. Sometimes we … Continue reading →

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My son talks about killing himself, is this a serious problem or attention seeking?

Posted on October 29, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My seven-year-old son has frequent tantrums or blow outs as we call them. For instance when he gets in trouble at school he comes home and  has a blow out, which most always includes him hurting either me(his mom) or … Continue reading →

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My son is negative, angry and he thinks about dying. How can I help him?

Posted on September 15, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My twelve-year-old son told me that at bedtime he thinks about what would happen if he died. His recent attitude towards his family is negative and he is always angry.  What can I do to help him? Talking about death, … Continue reading →

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Is my five-year-old showing severe seperation anxiety?

Posted on July 27, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My five year old daughter is showing severe separation anxiety?  About four weeks ago, her 8 year old uncle (my little brother) was killed in a car wreck.  We used simple terms and answered as many questions as she wanted … Continue reading →

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