Tag Archives: divorce

My niece is having a lot of difficulties and I think there is a mental health issue. How can I help her?

Posted on February 29, 2012 by Dr. Pat

My niece is visiting. She just turned 16 in January. She failed grade 9. Attended a special program to help her adjust/catch-up to grade 10 but became involved in an abusive relationship (that has thankfully ended). I’m not sure if … Continue reading →

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My step sons’ mother is trying to turn them against their father and me.

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Dr. Pat

I have a huge concern and not sure what effect it is having on my two wonderful step sons – ages 13 and 9. We have shared custody – no primary household.  My husband fought for this and the papers … Continue reading →

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At what age are children capable of deciding which parent to live with?

Posted on June 10, 2011 by Dr. Pat

I recently became a single working mother of four young children (2 girls, 2 boys), ages ranging from three-ten.  The father of my children has moved to a different province indefinitely but makes a concerted effort to visit them when … Continue reading →

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How can I help my friend, and her kids, deal with divorce?

Posted on March 10, 2011 by Dr. Pat

My best friend is going through a divorce, she has three kids: a son who is 13 and autistic, a daughter who is 10, and a five-year-old, all are on Ritalin. The divorce is messy and right now they have joint … Continue reading →

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What can I do to lessen the impact of divorce on my daughter?

Posted on January 18, 2011 by Dr. Pat

Our marriage has broken down completely. My wife and I are going to separate. What can I do to lessen the damage to my five-year-old daughter? Divorce is not good for kids. But there are things that you can do … Continue reading →

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My son is upset because, having separated from his father, I want to take back my family name.

Posted on November 18, 2010 by Dr. Pat

After 4 years of being legally separated, I’ve decided to take back my family name. I have two sons 9 and 7. Their Dad and I are active, effective parents who work well together to ensure the kids are OK. … Continue reading →

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My husband’s ex-wife is actively encouraging parental alienation. What can we do?

Posted on November 17, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My spouse and I are having on going troubles with his 13-year-old daughter. Her mother actively engages in parental alienation. Discussing court proceedings with the child, speaking poorly of both of us in their household etc. My spouse has been … Continue reading →

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What is the best custody arrangement for my son?

Posted on November 16, 2010 by Dr. Pat

I am looking for professional advice in regard to the best custody arrangements for my four-year-old son. I have heard many bias opinions about what is best for my child but I wish to make the decision that is in … Continue reading →

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Should punishments given to a child by one parent extend into their time with the other parent?

Posted on October 6, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My question is about punishment. I have two kids from a previous relationship and my ex takes my boys every second weekend. If he or I punished the boys by, say, taking away video game privileges for a length of … Continue reading →

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How can I get my ex-husband to be more responsible?

Posted on July 31, 2010 by Dr. Pat

My ex husband is supposed to take our two children, who are 4 and 6 years old, every second week. Our marriage broke up about 3 years ago. There used to be a lot of shouting and things are much … Continue reading →

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